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I don’t drink tea, so, whatever

I don’t drink tea, so, whatever

The banks are re-inspecting homes that were in contract prior to hurricane Irene. So, this morning I had to meet a client because his bank wanted a letter stating that the house was in a similar condition as when contract was signed.

We paid a physical visit to the home and agreed that there were no significant changes.

I started to head back to my office but stopped for a cup of tea and to make a call. I ordered tea and was asked what I took with it. Just milk I replied. After paying almost $2.00 I was handed a teabag and a cup with what I assumed was hot water. I opened the cup and found hot milky water. Turning to the server I asked him how he usually makes a cup of tea. As an avid tea drinker, I told him you usually put the tea bag in and then pour the water in and wait before adding milk. He turned to me and said, "I don’t drink tea, so, whatever."

So, how did it come to be all about him? I was the customer and he did not care about how my tea was served because he did not drink tea.

Then, I started to think about real estate. When working with home buyers, as agents, do we try to influence the decision to buy with our own personal preferences?

Jennifer Fivelsdal - JFIVE HOMES REALTY LLC - 845-758-6842- jennifer@jfivehomes.com

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Jennifer, I drink Tea.  

I would never return to any Restaurant / Tea House / Coffee Shop that treated customers like that.

But to the point of your Blog - how many Clients / Customers do we Realtors risk losing, because we expect them to do it "Our Way"?

Posted by Fred Griffin Real Estate LLC 8 months ago

Jennifer -- good question and a good example.. We must be careful to listen to our clients needs and want.. and then render our advice.

Posted by Joan Whitebook Southern New Hampshire (BHG The Masiello Group) 8 months ago

Well, I don't drink coffee, but I were to take a job at Starbucks, I would at least learn how to make it!  LOL

And no...I don't pressure clients into doing it my way, but I do keep them on track when they want to veer off the charted course of the contract.  :)

Posted by Lina Robertson Jones, REALTOR® Springfield MO Area Homes for Sale (Ozark, Nixa, Republic & Willard Real Estate) 8 months ago

Jennifer, The person what just RUDE!  For anyone to say ... "whatever" knowing the customer was not necessarily satisfied is rude.  I hope you follow up with the owner or manager and let them know about your great service!

Posted by Kathleen Daniels, Broker-Owner San Jose Real Estate 1-800-972-1822 (San Jose Homes & San Jose Short Sales) 8 months ago

Good point, Jennifer. That server needs to go to a Charm School class.

Posted by JoAnn Moore Home Loans in Delaware (The Mortgage Market of Delaware) 8 months ago

That is why you have "Clients" and he has UNHAPPY "Customers"! 

Posted by Jim Valentine (RE/MAX Realty Affiliates) 8 months ago

Hi Jennifer,
Thanks for sharing.
What an experience! It's good that you’re constantly assessing encounters with the aim of improving your service to your clients.
Keep up the good work!

Posted by Wandanna Melliphant - Specializes In Helping Mississauga First Time Buyers (Royal Lepage Credit Valley Real Estate Brokerage) 8 months ago

Jennifer, you really centered in on a very important life lesson, all over one cup of poorly prepared tea.

Posted by Linda Blumenthal - The Hamptons NY - CBR - Certified Buyer's Representative (Hampton One Real Estate Group - Buyer's Agent - 631-413-7393) 8 months ago

Fred I will never return to that establishment.  I sure had real estate on the brain :) to immediately make a connection with the service I received with real estate interaction with buyers.

Joan listening is so important, if we fail to, we cannot deliver the desired service.

Posted by Jennifer Fivelsdal Rhinebeck Real Estate (Serving Dutchess| Columbia|Ulster Ctys (LIC. R.E. Broker JFIVE Home Realty LLC ) 8 months ago

That would have been a really horrible cup of tea!

Posted by Liz Harris, MBA Chandler Short Sale Listing Specialist (Clients First Realty, LLC Chandler) 8 months ago

Lina so true, if you take a job learn the basics.   Yes we should help buyers stay on track, but respect their choices.

Kathleen that was really rude.  I thought of  letting the manager know some customer service training was needed, but I did not have the time.

Posted by Jennifer Fivelsdal Rhinebeck Real Estate (Serving Dutchess| Columbia|Ulster Ctys (LIC. R.E. Broker JFIVE Home Realty LLC ) 8 months ago

Or maybe there was another reason why he treated you so poorly.  I would've told him to apologize or be reported to his supervisor or the owner of the establishment.  Being rude or taking his negative attitude out on customers is certainly not good for business.

Posted by 'Dee' Mayers,REALTOR® — San Gabriel Valley, CA (Century 21 Americana) 8 months ago

Hi Jennifer,

You know it seems to me like you find what they like and it makes everything go smoother. That (imho) is a heck of a lot easier than trying to influence anyone.

Posted by Orange Co. Real Estate~Lynda Eisenmann, Broker-Owner,CRS,CDPE,GRI,SRES, Brea,CA (Preferred Home Brokers) 8 months ago

JoAnn I agree:)

Jim you have a point.

Wandanna I always try to learn something from each experience.

Liz you know tea drinkers like their tea a certain way.  I also hate when it is not piping hot.

 

Posted by Jennifer Fivelsdal Rhinebeck Real Estate (Serving Dutchess| Columbia|Ulster Ctys (LIC. R.E. Broker JFIVE Home Realty LLC ) 8 months ago

Dee I am not likely to go back.   I did not have time to speak with a manager.

Lynda That is the way to do it; listen and then find what they are looking for.

Posted by Jennifer Fivelsdal Rhinebeck Real Estate (Serving Dutchess| Columbia|Ulster Ctys (LIC. R.E. Broker JFIVE Home Realty LLC ) 8 months ago

Yuck, that is a horrible excuse for customer service.   I know some very successful agents who practically force their buyers into houses....but I cannot do that!

Posted by Jane Grant, "Temecula Homes", Southwest Real Estate 8 months ago
I think it is amazing that someone who works in a place that serves tea doesn't know how to make it! He probably won't have that job long!
Posted by Diane Grady-Klinge (Coldwell Banker Premier Properties Saint Augustine, Florida) 8 months ago

He doesn't drink tea but he is making it.  Realtors are not buying the house but they are maketing it.  I sometimes hear an agent tearing a house up and I want to say, your not buying it so shut up.

Posted by Liz Wallace Broker C21 Sherlock Homes Rockville Centre, LI, NY (Century 21 Sherlock Homes) 8 months ago

Jennifer, thanks for sharing and relating it to real estate. I learned long ago that what I like has nothing to do with what my clients may like. I stopped making opinions about what I like all together. What a disgusting cup of tea. He should have tried it so he would never again make that mistake, and maybe this would have adjusted his attitude too. :)

Posted by Alan Adamo - Huntington Beach, CA REALTOR® (Westline Real Estate) 8 months ago

Jennifer,

I HATE it when a waiter or waitress doesn't care.. or even worse they sabotage your order.  

Posted by Judi Barrett~Integrity Real Estate Services~Idabel, Oklahoma 8 months ago

Jennefer, we are suppose to be a customer focused industry, and we need to remind ourselves of that often.

Posted by George Souto NMLS# 65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages Connecticut 8 months ago

Maybe that waiter is have a bad day? Either way, that is no way to talk to a paying customer or anyone else. Hopefully less Real Estate agent conduct their business the same way, there will be no customers. 

Posted by Morgan Evans-New York City Real Estate Expert (Prudential Douglas Elliman) 8 months ago

Jennifer - with this attitude itis even surprising he has a job when millions, eager to work, don't

Posted by Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL. FunCoast Realty, 386-405-4408 8 months ago

Oh, I know what you mean.  Sometmes I gravitate the floors/colors I like.  But, usually, I'm able to step back look at the decor of home and taste of my customer.  Sometimes it's challenging because they like stuff I don't.  I've gotten way better at this.  This is a great remider.

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